Aww… Are you in Pain? #RealReads

Are you having a headache?

A stomach ache?

No? Then is it cold or flu?

Then what’s the matter of pain?

Ohhh…. What it’s a heartbreak?!!

Well that was a conversation between me and my 16year old bestie.She was ultimately crying in a 5 minute long conversation which started with “hello” and further she went on weeping and she said she was in intense pain. I m sorry, not to judge my loyalty but seriously ,have you ever seen a 16-year -old crying for a 3week old relationship?(I promise I consoled her at the end) 

3week is a really long time you know for relationships these days,*phew*.Everyone’s in pain and that’s why whenever I feel like to become a doctor I rather become a psychologist and not a cardiologist. (ultimately both fix the heart problems) but psychologists   are responsible for reducing all the  pagalpan in society.(Noble contribution to the already pagal society) .

Truthfully telling singles are the happiest people ever. (Tell me if you are single and you don’t agree).Not to have a debate on this  as I sincerely don’t have experience to talk about relationships and the silliest ,regular 3week break ups I asked her was that relationship even worth crying?

No she just felt “lonely”. (You know when your best friend feels “lonely” you feel like why are you even alive?).

I knew this was the case with most of the 3week break ups. We  “need” someone to be with us or to complete us. The truth is we FEAR loneliness.It’s not that we have loved somebody so much that we can’t live without them in these kind of relationships, it’s just that they are assigned to understand you.  Okay not all of us, exceptions are always there. But truly what do you think causes depression?..Name it but truly it’s loneliness,  don’t you think so? Pain, what an overrated word it is.Seriously is this pain?   

Real talk:

All in all are you not in pain? Everybody is in some form of discomfort,little or intense we all have some form of pain or maybe no pain somedays .Pain is an overrated thing these days.  It’s a thing so temporary like clouds, it just comes and goes but the sun(happiness) is always there.The ultimate truth:  “Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional”. 

Pain is for the living, only dead don’t feel it. It’s a part of everything you do, everything you are, it is the proof that you are alive. Pain is for good, for CHANGE.

 Having a heartbreak, confusion or some form of “stress”,??? you can always learn from you mistakes, change yourself and all blah, blah, blah but firstly  do not escape from it, deal with it. 

(and do comment about your thoughts on this post, it’s been really long I hadn’t come up with the reads, but hey I finally posted!) 



60 Replies to “Aww… Are you in Pain? #RealReads”

  1. 😀😀😀I get surprise when a 16 year old or 14 year old child get into relationship and after that they take stress because of breakup
    I donno where all are going on
    Why so hurry !even you are living with your caring parents , lovely siblings then why you need any bf/gf
    Sorry I am little bit weird , I just speak honestly because completeness , incompleteness these words are come after a age when we have have completed our goals and we are settled in our life so now we should find a life partner with whom we can spend rest of our life

    If we are teenage then we should focus on study and family values
    This time we just feel attraction , I think it loss after a time when we get mature .
    By the way
    Discussed nice topic

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    1. Exactly, even I have same thoughts, are relationships these days even worthy of all crying and stress, firstly as teen one should not get only into this stuff and I m talking from my own ‘being single’ experience! why v need bf/gf and we often cofuse heartbreak for pain…Thank you so much❄😇 for reading and appreciating ❄😇💞

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      1. I have never seen a break up after a years relationship, haha😂that’s too long for people these days, if the relationship lasts for even one year the couple should maybe get married, one year these days is like sooo much long😂😱😂

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  2. My dearest.. the pain of a heartbreak is so real..
    but you have to find that love that leaves you so high with joy..

    That when you loose it.. it’s the very worst thing ever..

    You just have to be understanding to the hurt someone is feelings when they experiencing it.. a little compassion goes a far way…

    That said..
    you are so right about pain and knowing and appreciating the joy that comes with the pain…

    Love your analysis of it all though..

    Just don’t think when someone is truly hurting. Whether physically or emotionally.. that it’s so easy to get past..
    It’s all real.. and you have to sympathize .. empathize… be compassionate..
    and be supportive.. encouraging and most lend a listening ear..

    It’s always the worst hurt 😭 ever.., also the best hurt.. you will ever experience..

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    1. True it is, but in my friend’s case she was very upset not because of heartbreak but because of loneliness, and not to forget it was just a 3week relationship, as I mentioned in the post I consoled her at the end. I agree it’s never so easy, but we often confuse a lil hurt for a intense pain, which is not so.

      Thank you so much for the feedback! Much appreciated!👏❤❄😇


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