Aww… Are you in Pain? #RealReads

Are you having a headache?

A stomach ache?

No? Then is it cold or flu?

Then what’s the matter of pain?

Ohhh…. What it’s a heartbreak?!!

Well that was a conversation between me and my 16year old bestie.She was ultimately crying in a 5 minute long conversation which started with “hello” and further she went on weeping and she said she was in intense pain. I m sorry, not to judge my loyalty but seriously ,have you ever seen a 16-year -old crying for a 3week old relationship?(I promise I consoled her at the end) 

3week is a really long time you know for relationships these days,*phew*.Everyone’s in pain and that’s why whenever I feel like to become a doctor I rather become a psychologist and not a cardiologist. (ultimately both fix the heart problems) but psychologists   are responsible for reducing all the  pagalpan in society.(Noble contribution to the already pagal society) .

Truthfully telling singles are the happiest people ever. (Tell me if you are single and you don’t agree).Not to have a debate on this  as I sincerely don’t have experience to talk about relationships and the silliest ,regular 3week break ups I asked her was that relationship even worth crying?

No she just felt “lonely”. (You know when your best friend feels “lonely” you feel like why are you even alive?).

I knew this was the case with most of the 3week break ups. We  “need” someone to be with us or to complete us. The truth is we FEAR loneliness.It’s not that we have loved somebody so much that we can’t live without them in these kind of relationships, it’s just that they are assigned to understand you.  Okay not all of us, exceptions are always there. But truly what do you think causes depression?..Name it but truly it’s loneliness,  don’t you think so? Pain, what an overrated word it is.Seriously is this pain?   

Real talk:

All in all are you not in pain? Everybody is in some form of discomfort,little or intense we all have some form of pain or maybe no pain somedays .Pain is an overrated thing these days.  It’s a thing so temporary like clouds, it just comes and goes but the sun(happiness) is always there.The ultimate truth:  “Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional”. 

Pain is for the living, only dead don’t feel it. It’s a part of everything you do, everything you are, it is the proof that you are alive. Pain is for good, for CHANGE.

 Having a heartbreak, confusion or some form of “stress”,??? you can always learn from you mistakes, change yourself and all blah, blah, blah but firstly  do not escape from it, deal with it. 

(and do comment about your thoughts on this post, it’s been really long I hadn’t come up with the reads, but hey I finally posted!) 

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