“Show me your friends & I’ll tell you who you are!”-#RealReads

Who was the last person you talked to? 

What do you think about 5 people who are closest to you?

Do they inspire you or make you feel stressed? 

Ever wondered why your bestie and you have same type of likes and dislikes? 

 There goes a saying “Show me your friends and I ‘ll tell you your future” ,

 and also “show me your friends & I’ll tell you who you are”. 

And the most important thing to KNOW and UNDERSTAND: “You are average of the 5 people you spend your most time with”. -Jim Rohn❤.  This is not in your control by default. You WILL be like them whether you want to be or not!  

Tell me why , when you play a game for 3 to 6 hours at a stretch or when you watch a TV show before sleeping it  comes in your dream?

 It is because the brain stores what is feeded to it! Now it’s same with your friends. 

As a kid for me making new friends was such a fun thing and so it is even today, making new friends was the coolest thing and the easiest thing you could do to be popular. As we grow up we realise not everyone is worthy of our time, not everyone is  a good company to be with not everyone is actually good.

Rememeber what your mom said you?Never make friends with “bad” children!True it is. 

Detox your life! Some people (“blood relatives” )cannot be changed but instead try making friends with people whom you feel inferior to, who inspire you to become better and maybe it might be correct to say that the people who you feel jealous of.

❄So what about friends and relatives I already have?  👇👇👇

Be that friend yourself who inspires, supports and helps others to become a better person. But don’t forget to find yourself more inspiring friends !What type of friend are you?

What you will be, your thinking style, your success or failure and everything good or bad ,friends are a big part of your life and unconsciously or consciously they make YOU. QUALITY MATTERS, QUANTITY DOESN’T! Choose wisely! 

“When character of a man is not clear to you, look at his friends “-Japanese proverb. 


I try and share most out of what I read, realise, learn and experience. Do comment and share your thoughts! 


58 Replies to ““Show me your friends & I’ll tell you who you are!”-#RealReads”

    1. Yeah, that’s so true we choose people intuitively who are similar to us rather we should choose people who inspire us to become better.✌

      Thank you so much, elena.❤
      Will surely check your site.
      Love ya💞.

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  1. Awesome post.. It’s 100% correct. We are what we devote our time to. But not everyone is lucky to have friends in their life or I should say friends on whom they can trust blindly.. You are lucky to have such buddies..

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    1. I think friends are a matter of choice, even though we have friends that cannot be changed we need to continuously make better friends .So well you said “We are what we devote our time to”.👏Absolutely!

      Well, lucky toh mai hu I have a buddy like you also😇❤.

      Thank you so much, your comment means a lot!❄❤

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      1. I am lucky too to have a buddy like you😊😊 it’s good to know that there are people like out there who genuinely care about feeling of others😇😇 you are one of the best person I know on WordPress😊😊

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    1. That’s amazing to know that you share a great bond, that’s what relationships are about! Yeah even I was the source of many friends to my parents😇❄Thank you so much for reading and commenting. Your effort is highly appreciated💕❄✌👍

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